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Swanson Boys: Homeschool Updates, and Books they’ve been Loving

by Monica 10 Comments

I don't know about you, but my boys go back to school tomorrow.  (Tomorrow!!)I hope you enjoyed the last post about Homeschooling High School.  (I remember being so nervous about the idea of homeschooling high school, but it has turned out to be a blast!)As promised, I am back today to give some quick updates on the homeschool curriculum my boys are using this year,  and also to share some of the books they've been enjoying.^^My 4, yesterday -- at a Hawaiian Rodeo! :) I'm

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Categories: Home School, Miscellaneous, Parenting and Family

On Homeschooling High School

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Homeschooling High School....I am so happy to be sharing an awesome post by Jen McDonald today.  I've been meaning to put some words together to share a homeschool post for a while now, and when I came across this post I was like "She said it better than I could!"  I wanted to highlight all over my computer screen.  :)  I  think you'll enjoy this!  Quick note --   Curriculum updates? Every year I do try to do a curriculum update for my family, (though I don't think I got to that last

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Categories: Home School, Miscellaneous, Parenting and Family

Five Ways to Build Bridges When There is Distance in Your Marriage

by Monica 28 Comments

Recently, my husband and I were running some errands in downtown Honolulu.  It was just the two of us, and we were enjoying a little time away from our rowdy boys.  But we were both distracted:  Dave was getting many calls from the hospital, and thinking about the work waiting for him there…I was going over my mental to-do list, and calculating where and when I needed to pick up our boys.Suddenly, just as we neared a corner where we waited to cross the street, the scene brought me back in

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Categories: Encouragement and faith, Miscellaneous, Parenting and Family

The “Instagram Five”: Helping Teens Use Social Media with Integrity.

by Monica 13 Comments

Our family has had more than our fair share of roundtables on the topic of social media.  It's not an easy topic, and whether or not your family is on social media, we can all agree it's complicated.  Social media is still so new, relatively speaking.  We know a lot about it.  But not everything.  We especially do not know what the long-term implications of social media use are.We do know that the average teenager spends a LOT of their day on social media. This article from the Washington

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Categories: Miscellaneous, Parenting and Family

A Conversation about Home.

by Monica 13 Comments

My first morning back from my 5-week trip to California, I did an Instagram/Facebook post sharing the morning view from my living room in Hawaii...^^ deck reconstruction (still) in progress... ;)Along with the photo, I shared this caption:When we are on the mainland, the conversation never fails to come up:  Should we consider moving?  There are so many pro's to that idea: we'd be closer to family, lower cost of living, so many more opportunities for kids and school and travel

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Categories: Home & Country, Miscellaneous, Parenting and Family

When Your Kid Argues about Everything {5 tips}

by Monica 333 Comments

Hi Friends! I'm just barely back from nearly five weeks in California. It was such a fantastic trip, with some great surf, (Luke had some great heats, and took 2nd place in the National Air competition! :)) and a thousand more memories made.  While I unpack suitcases and hug my boys a repeatedly (five weeks is way too long!) I wanted to share one more READER FAVORITE POST from my archives.  This may be the post most discovered through google-searches, proving that I'm not the only mom with a

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Categories: Miscellaneous, Parenting and Family

Birth Order: What Middle Children Need Most from Their Parents

by Monica 227 Comments

I seem to have a pretty good sample for a study on birth order...Josiah, 15 (below, left), Jonah (on the right, below,) 13, and Luke (center, below) almost 11.Levi, who arrived six and half years later, throws me for a bit of a loop.  I always say he must fall somewhere between a first born, and a baby.   (And a Tasmanian devil, but that's another story.)But really, I have always been intrigued by the topic of birth order.  Not only do I have a great sample to study in my home,

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Categories: Miscellaneous, Parenting and Family

What to Expect When Your Son Starts Puberty

by Monica 79 Comments

Aloha Friends!Luke and I are all settled here in San Clemente, Ca., gearing up for a weekend surf contest (Luke) and a series of speaking engagements (me. :) ) If you happen to be in Orange Country, check THIS POST for a list of speaking times and locations, with links for more info!Before we head into a busy weekend, I wanted to share one more post from the blog archives. This covers an important, and timely topic which I know is relevant to many of you now.  Puberty.  And rest assured,

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Categories: Miscellaneous, Parenting and Family

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